It’s hard to make magic happen out of a spark. Being afraid to make a move cause no one wants to get hurt. So it becomes a stand off until someone takes that leap of fate and from then on it’s happiness. Until there is a fight, there’s shouting, misunderstandings, voice raising, and a lot of exchanged words that aren’t meant but only said in the spur of the moment. Moments pass and still no one lets down until someone gives up the fight to go on. A lot of times they make up and say sorry and try to fix things, and well, other times it’s to damaged to go back. Two hearts are left damaged and it’s a job super glue or duct tape can’t fix.
I was taught to treat other the way you would like to be treated as a kid, from my parents, and from just about anywhere. I applied it to my relationships and I hit a rut along the way but make a come back better than ever. But scars don’t go away and always show eventually. Even though I hurt how people see my it DOES NOT hurt who I am. I treat my special someone with respect, I am as loyal as a dog, as honest as a dedicated man can be, and as loving as the word love itself. I treat that person this why because that is how I want to be treated in a relationship. Yes i cheated on a girl once, like i said i slipped. I’ve done things i am not proud of but I’ve learned and learning is what makes me a better man. I am better now because I have been pulled out of that rut I was once in. Never going back to what i used to be and I am back to treated the one i love the way i wanted to be treated. I respect you, trust you, am loyal to you, am honest to you, and love you not because I want you to do the same back but because I just do. Treating you the way I want to be treated doesn’t work all the time, sometimes you do it just you do.
Don’t have to believe me. But don’t doubt who I am as a person. Treated you all this time how you wanted to be treated and always will. 091010